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  • Tips on How to Enjoy the Holiday Season This Year

    The holidays can be magical, but let’s be honest- they can also be overwhelming, expensive, and emotionally draining if we’re not careful. Somewhere between the gift lists, the travel plans, the cooking, and the family expectations, it’s easy to lose… Continue reading

  • What It’s Like to Walk to the Washington Monument in Freezing Weather

    The morning looked bright and sharp. Sun on full blast. A clean blue sky stretched overhead. Birds moved in relaxed circles above the street. I watched it all from my couch and felt a pull. The kind that tells you… Continue reading

  • Cooking Adobo to Impress vs Cooking to Improve

    I remember the first time I cooked adobo for my husband. It was during that honeymoon stage where everything felt like a movie scene and I wanted to impress him with even the simplest things. You know, prepare food before… Continue reading

  • Looking Back from 2025

    2025 is ending soon, and I can hardly believe it. It feels like yesterday when my siblings and I would run into the house, shouting and laughing, our feet pounding the wooden floors as if the world outside didn’t exist.… Continue reading

  • Teaching My Last Class Again

    Today I taught my last class again, and the feeling settled in slowly, like something familiar I had almost forgotten. It has been a while since I felt that quiet mix of gratitude and heaviness that comes when you close… Continue reading

  • How to Kickstart Your Week with Energy, Focus, and Clarity

    I used to think that a strong week started with a perfect plan. A clean desk. A color coded calendar. A long list of tasks lined up like soldiers waiting for orders. It took years for me to realize that… Continue reading

  • When My Husband Became My Favorite Gossip Partner

    There comes a quiet shift in life when the person you used to run to with half your stories, your tiny triumphs and your petty irritations, is suddenly the person you run to with all of them. Before marriage, I… Continue reading

  • Snowflakes in the Capital

    Yesterday, Washington, DC basked under a bright, warm sky (Read story here.) The Capitol looked almost golden in the sunlight, and the air felt more like late autumn than the edge of winter. I spent the day walking around, enjoying… Continue reading

  • A Guide to Visiting the Capitol During Any Season

    Visiting the Capitol is one of those things you end up doing a lot if you are living just a few blocks away. I went again today, for probably the nth time, and even after all these visits, it never… Continue reading

  • Color Therapy for Winter Blues

    Winter settles in quietly, not with drama but with a slow dimming, as if someone keeps lowering the brightness on the world each day. The sky hangs heavy. The wind loses its warmth. Even the streets begin to feel unfamiliar,… Continue reading

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